veephil:

my-wayward-captain:

nick fury tho I’m crying

Shut your whore mouth Bruce

veephil:

my-wayward-captain:

nick fury tho I’m crying

Shut your whore mouth Bruce

writeworld:

This.

writeworld:

This.

We were grabbing a bite of lunch at a small cafe, in a mall, right across from a booth that sold jewelry and where ears could be pierced for a fee. A mother approaches with a little girl of six or seven years old. The little girl is clearly stating that she doesn’t want her ears pierced, that’s she’s afraid of how much it will hurt, that she doesn’t like earrings much in the first place. Her protests, her clear ‘no’ is simply not heard. The mother and two other women, who work the booth, begin chatting and trying to engage the little girl in picking out a pair of earrings. She has to wear a particular kind when the piercing is first done but she could pick out a fun pair for later.

"I don’t want my ears pierced."

"I don’t want any earrings."

The three adults glance at each other conspiratorially and now the pressure really begins. She will look so nice, all the other girls she knows wear earrings, the pain isn’t bad.

She, the child, sees what’s coming and starts crying. As the adults up the volume so does she, she’s crying and emitting a low wail at the same time. “I DON’T WANT MY EARS PIERCED.”

Her mother leans down and speaks to her, quietly but strongly, the only words we could hear were ‘… embarrassing me.’

We heard, then, two small screams, when the ears were pierced.

Little children learn early and often that ‘no doesn’t mean no.’

Little children learn early that no one will stand with them, even the two old men looking horrified at the events from the cafeteria.

Little girls learn early and often that their will is not their own.

No means no, yeah, right.

Most often, for kids and others without power, ”no means force.”

from "No Means Force" at Dave Hingsburger’s blog.

This is important. It doesn’t just apply to little girls and other children, though it often begins there.

For the marginalized, our “no’s” are discounted as frivolous protests, rebelliousness, or anger issues, or we don’t know what we’re talking about, or we don’t understand what’s happening.

When “no means force” we become afraid to say no.

(via k-pagination)

I know if I had been the little girl, I would have thought the two horrified men in the cafeteria were judging me for “being bad”. I still think everyone does and that I’m breaking nos unsaid all the time. (via catharticcruella)

jabberwockyjabberwock:

inklingart:

I’m not much of morning person these days. As such, sketches like this make sense before coffee/tea. 

I’m an Owlbear

I think we all are

jabberwockyjabberwock:

inklingart:

I’m not much of morning person these days. As such, sketches like this make sense before coffee/tea. 

I’m an Owlbear

I think we all are

faerytale-wings:

There isnt nearly enough fanart for Erebors royal family. So here you are: my interpretation of Thrain’s wife, mother of Thorin, Dis and Frerin, Princess of Erebor.

faerytale-wings:

There isnt nearly enough fanart for Erebors royal family. So here you are: my interpretation of Thrain’s wife, mother of Thorin, Dis and Frerin, Princess of Erebor.

sean781:

I watched the Lord of the Rings and Hobbit. Many thought’s come to my head but these are most impressing ones so I drew them… And it’s funny everyone find Thranduil like this as I thought same thing so I drew it too.

Some people take this website to seriously. 

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writeworld:

Many people talk about wanting to write a book “someday,” but few progress beyond that point. Anyone who has written a novel knows the enormous effort – both physical and mental – that goes into finishing a book, and here are seven reasons you can feel proud of your own efforts.

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